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I recently returned from a week-long, family vacation to the beaches on the Gulf coast of Alabama. Two summers ago those same beaches helped jump start my tennis craze. As the story goes, I was playing paddle ball on the beach with my husband and two children when I realized I was having too much fun to stop, and decided we should all pick up tennis once we returned home. Funny how things start, progress, and lead to places one would never imagine. It’s the unexpected moments in life that tend to create sea changes and with any luck, most of the time, they’re positive and exciting.

A lot has changed in the two summers since I picked up tennis: my forehand, my serve, the blog, new tennis racquets, etc. etc. but beach paddle ball remains the source of a lot of fun. Here are some pictures of my two children while on vacation last week. While Fabi loved playing in the sand and riding the waves on her Boogie board, it was almost impossible to get Alejo to put down the paddle. While I appreciate his passion, and would love to see him channel it toward tennis exclusively this year, even I needed a break from the game every once in a while.

My first "racquets" purchased two summers ago while on vacation.

My first “racquets” purchased two summers ago while on vacation.

 

My First Interclub Tennis Match

I was nervous all morning long before I left the house. I awoke early, around 6 a.m., to catch the men’s semifinal between Nadal and Djokovic. Danny offered to drop off the kids at camp so that I could get to my match at the Missouri Athletic Club (MAC) without rushing. When I arrived, I walked straight into the lobby half-expecting to see the tennis courts right around the corner. As I peeked into the dining room on my left, and took note of the numerous chandeliers hanging from the ceiling, I thought to myself, “What in the world am I doing here?” The club was so much bigger and so much more luxurious than I had anticipated. I had no idea where to go, and there didn’t seem to be anyone around to ask. The only person I could find, with the exception of the valets out in front, was a woman in a white fedora seated alone and working on her laptop. She looked like she belonged, and pointed me in the right direction. I was playing on court 2 and my partner’s name was a woman named Sheila, according to the previous evening’s email. That was about all I knew for sure.

I checked my watch and hurried down the stairs, past a pro shop that looked like the kind of gift store you’d find in a large airport, and the club’s bar, where a man in slacks and a golf shirt appeared from around the corner. “Are you here for Interclub?” he asked.

“Yes,” I responded, already berating myself for signing up. “Follow this hall up the stairs to the door on your left,” he said.

“Ok, thanks. But do you know where I can fill my water bottle?” I asked, oblivious to the two water fountains right behind him. It sounds like such a lame question now, but I was already hungry and didn’t want to be thirsty, too.

“There’s water on the courts,” he told me.

But the only courts I could find where those marked courts 4-7. So I ran around for a few minutes trying to find court 2 before the same man appeared out of nowhere and said I should go to court 5. Apparently, there was a mistake on the court assignment sheets.

Luckily, I wasn’t late but the other teams where already warming up. At this point I was so nervous my stomach was hurting. On top of it all, until yesterday, I had never played on indoor, hard courts and from the looks of the other players, this was serious business. Sure, they were slightly older than I was, but damn could they hit the ball! I’d have to rely on my speed, I guess.

My partner was a woman named Sheila, who put me immediately at ease. She was nice and encouraging from the very beginning. Anyone else and the match may have gone the other way. I could tell she was laidback but that it was important for her to win, despite how unassuming she seemed. She had had surgery in January she said, so she was a little rusty but had played for many years. “We’ll just have fun,” she said.

Somehow, as is often the case with me, our team wins the toss and I’m up first to serve. I think I’m trembling. The first ball goes into the net. I picture my notes from the previous evening and work to just get it in. “Your serve is good, don’t worry,” says Sheila from the net. My serve goes in.

We play out the next point and win it. The game moves fast. We’re up 30-love. Our opponent at the net is an excellent volleyer. Afraid of nothing and I can tell she’ll make us work for our points. I win my first service game and am thrilled!

Next up to serve is Karen. She has a hard serve, which I can only block otherwise my return goes out. Good thing we covered that in clinic this year. Some of her serves are so fast I can’t get my racquet on the ball. But we manage to win that game, too.

I’m beginning to feel more confident, which starts to work against me. Sheila’s up to serve and I’m trying to poach all the returns! I miss three in a row! Why am I doing this? We lose the game. Despite my mistakes and relative inexperience I can keep up, and I realize how well I’ve been taught. The basics are etched in stone inside my head. I remind myself to do what I know, and nothing more. All the time, lessons, clinics have worked. I’ve been an A student, and have had the best teachers.

It’s Trish’s turn to serve. She’s closer to my age and has that look about her that says, “I know exactly what I’m doing,” which she does. She has an excellent serve, but between Sheila and I we’re able to run down most of the balls. My partner and I have just met but we have good chemistry. I’m sweating from the pace of the game and we’ve played less than an hour. We’re now tied, two games each.

Up until the very end, the match is close but we end up winning 7-6, 6-4. According to Karen, Trish wins every everything at MAC and today is the first day she’s lost. Both she and Karen are excellent players but Sheila and I mixed up our shots a bit more. As always, luck played a role. Next time the outcome could be different. That’s the thing about tennis, it keeps you guessing and therefore wanting more.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What To Wear?

Clearly, I can’t get my mind off tomorrow morning’s match. But nerves and all, there’s still an outfit to consider. Tennis clothes are a small obsession of mine so options are plenty. But striking the right tone is more important.

While this bright green and white dress by Nike–worn by none other than Maria Sharapova during one of the majors last year–is one of my all-time favorites, the message it sends–”I’ve got game!”–is a little tricky for me to pull off in a match situation. Better save it for a tennis lesson, or a clinic among friends.

Nike tennis dress.

Nike tennis dress.

So, not wanting to give the wrong impression before the first toss is launched, I’m opting for another Nike ensemble, also worn by Maria, but this one a bit more subdued and toned-down. I love it because it’s got it all: easy comfort, serious style, and an accompanying orange visor, which I can’t get enough of this season.

From Nike.

From Nike.

 

Tennis Should Be Fun!

Tennis at Shaw Park this morning was so much fun! I can’t remember the last time I played and actually enjoyed myself. That probably sounds a little incredulous but lately I’ve been focused on trying to play better and more consistently so I’ve been much less tolerant of my mistakes (which are many, unfortunately). The ladies I played with at 9:30 a.m. were funny, forgiving and encouraging. The only damper to an otherwise sunny morning is that I strained my back when trying to return a low volley on my backhand side. The pain isn’t as bad as last summer’s injury, which had me sidelined for a good three weeks, but as I sit here writing I can feel my back muscles tighten. Regardless of the discomfort, I was having such a good time that I decided to play through the pain (or deny it all together) and stay for a second hour, this time with an entirely new group of players.

While I couldn’t pinpoint right away what it was about one of the players that made her strokes quite different than mine, it took just seconds during our warm-up to figure it out: top spin. Bree puts amazing spin on the ball. Unless you take the ball early, which sounds easy but isn’t at all, her shots will bounce right over your head. I still can’t figure out how she does it, but I got a micro-sense of what the pros and TV commentators are talking about when they refer to the challenge of playing Rafa and his well-known top spin game. Bree also had a really cool way of getting her racquet around the outside of the ball to create amazing angles, which were nearly impossible to return at times.

Despite the challenge, good preparation for tomorrow’s first league game.

 

 

 

Just Have Fun!

That’s what the person in charge of the tennis league I’m playing on this summer said to me when I expressed skepticism about joining. “It’s just for fun,” she repeated. I’m hesitant to believe people when they say that, it’s almost like they know there’s an element of risk/danger/embarrassment/etc. involved but are rooting for you anyway.

Yet, despite my apprehension, I’m playing tomorrow morning in a doubles match against another local team. I’m curious to know what it’s like to play a sport on a competitive level. I’m 40 years old and have never competed outside the classroom, a newsroom, or the piano hall. But that’s another story. Wish me luck!

Funny I should find inspiration from a hockey player. But his words pretty much sum up my philosophy on most things in life.

Funny I should find inspiration from a hockey player. But his words pretty much sum up my philosophy on most things in life.

And this quote is wishful thinking, but maybe someday.

And this quote is wishful thinking, but maybe someday.

 

 

Ouch!

I guess women are still women regardless of whether or not they’re top-ranked, international tennis stars or not. Check out this exchange. Yikes!

 

Early Mornings at the French

I love watching the French Open on TV but I’m getting a little carried away. For the past two weeks I’ve been waking up at 5 a.m. to catch the day’s matches plus highlights from previous days’ drama. It’s turning into a great major with so many close matches and heartbreaking upsets, i.e. Stanislas Wawrinka vs. Richard Gasquet 6-7, 4-6, 6-4, 7-5, 8-6, JW Tsonga vs. Roger Federer 7-5, 6-3, 6-3, Agnieszka Radwanska vs. Sara Errani 4-6, 6-7 to name just a few. Is this the first time Wawrinka over-shadows Federer at a major? I’ll have to do some research.

One of the best story lines in Paris is that of comeback king Tommy Robredo who, in three consecutive matches, slugged it out from two sets down to win. All this after falling from a career-high of world No. 5 to somewhere in the 400s after a serious injury left him sidelined for months. Despite his loss to fellow Spaniard David Ferrer in the quarterfinals today, I’m hoping he and his never-say-never attitude will be around for a long time. What a guy!

 

Beauty Product for Tennis Moms

Two weeks ago I was in California for one of my best friend’s nuptials. While she was busy being fussed over during a run-through make-up and hair session the day before the wedding, I was busy snooping around in her bathroom, checking out her beauty products in hopes of discovering something new and life-changing. That’s when I spotted a jar of Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare Alpha Beta Daily Body Peel, daily pads containing Alpha Beta which work to remove dead surface cells and stimulate collagen production. I’ve used Dr. Gross’ products for the face for months, but I didn’t realize his company carried a similar product for the body as well.

Jenni, my friend of almost 20 years and a veteran of countless triathlons, overseas marathons, and Escape from Alcatraz events, swears by the product. “When I exercise, I tend to breakout along my bra line,” she told me. “And I don’t always have time to go home and shower right away after my workouts. So I use the pads and they work really well.” Sounds like a perfect product for a busy tennis-playing mom, too.

Jenni being primped for her big day!

Jenni being primped for her big day!

The Outsider, Roger’s Locks, Competitive Tennis

I’m more than halfway through The Outsider and the more I read about Jimmy Connors and his often strained relationship with fans, his near-fights on the court with John McEnroe, and less than gentlemanly behavior toward linesmen and umpires, the more I realize how much the game–or better yer–the players have changed. I’m a huge Connors fan. That said, I can’t imagine a day when any of today’s top five men would act out in a similar manner as he did. In fact, most of today’s players appear to go out of their way to show off their honorable side. While there’s something to the tension and drama Connors’ style brought to tennis, in today’s world it’s nice to know there’s still a place where civility and manners win.

Speaking of civility and manners, Roger Federer cut his hair just in time for the French Open. I prefer his locks long and wavy but even without them he hasn’t lost any of his grace and elegance.

Roger Federer sports a new look at this year's French Open.

Roger Federer sports a new look at this year’s French Open.

 

I’m considering joining a competitive ladies tennis league this summer. There are teams for players of all levels. Maybe I’m a glutton for punishment. Or, better yet, maybe I see this as a good way to practice and improve my skills. We’ll see…

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